September 22, 1830, Deerfield, Massachusetts.
September 5, 1917, Somerville, Massachusetts.
At age 14, Graves joined the Baptist church in North Sunderland, Massachusetts, where his father Newcomb Graves was a deacon for many years. He graduated from Amherst College in 1856, then studied at the Newton Theological Institution (1856-8). Ordained March 9, 1858, he pastored in Charleston, Massachusetts (1858-63); Providence, Rhode Island (1863-74); Fall River, Massachusetts (1874-80); Haverhill, Massachusetts, and New Bedord, Massachusetts (from 1886). Graves wrote his first hymn when he was 15 years old; it was sung at a child’s funeral by the choir he belonged to.